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Bridesmaids: 10 Ways Bridesmaids Can Help The Bride

There’s something to be said for going above and beyond. Here are 10 nifty ways to give the bride 110 percent.

by The Knot

Bridesmaids: 10 Ways Bridesmaids Can Help The Bride

There’s more to being a bridesmaid than parading down the aisle in a pretty pink dress. Celebrate your friend and her groom by helping her out and adding some extra fun to this often stressful, but very special time. Here are some of our best ideas, to inspire you to go above and beyond your bridesmaid duties.

1. Take responsibility for the gift baskets or bags for out-of-town guests’ hotel rooms. Include a welcome letter, maps, relevant phone numbers, snacks, postcards, city souvenirs, and suggestions for fun activities.

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2. Ask the bride when she expects the wedding invitations to be ready and plan an informal gathering. Ask each bridesmaid to bring something to eat, turn on the iPod, and divide the duties of writing addresses, stuffing envelopes, and putting on stamps. Not only will you have fun, but you’ll also be helping the bride finish a very tedious job!

3. Offer to help with any celebrations planned for the night before the wedding. Maybe you could organise some decorations or help with the RSVPs.

4. Ward off pre-wedding jitters by creating a distraction — get tickets to a play or even see a movie, one that you know she’d be dying to see if she weren’t so busy planning the wedding.

5. Ask what she’s drinking at the reception and keep her cup full. Brides seldom make it through the crowd to the bar (just be sure her cup doesn’t run over!).

6. If they want guests to use social media and special hashtags, help spread the word on the day and encourage friends to get snap happy.

7. Offer to be the end-of-the-party, final once-over girl — collect the cake topper and toasting flutes, make sure Grandma is escorted to her car, etc.

8. Take her gown to the cleaners after the wedding. Get her gown preserved for when she returns from the honeymoon.

9. Pack a honeymoon “in case you forget” bag: Include a disposable camera, sunscreen, sunglasses, moisturiser,  and other toiletries a harried bride might forget to pack.

10. Stock the couple’s kitchen with food for their return. The worst trip is the one to the grocery store the night you return from paradise. Help them avoid reality for just one more day.

Image by:  The Nichols Photography

What are some ways your bridesmaids have gone above and beyond?

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Elana


Pack a mini sewing kit in your bag with white/ivory/cream thread (to mach to brides dress) and thread the same colour as the bridesmaid dresses. This has come in handy for wardrobe malfunctions and quick dress repairs during the night.

Elana
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