Can We Have Two Weddings?
Question: I met my future husband online, and we come from different parts of the country. My family and friends can't come to a wedding in his area and his can't come to one in mine. Would it be appropriate to have two weddings, one in each hometown?
Answer: by The Knot
It would be completely fine to have more than one wedding celebration — though it’s too bad your families can’t meet, it’s a sure thing that both groups will appreciate your thoughtfulness.
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Comments (1)
j_jaye
I think this is bad advice. You only get one wedding! You could have your wedding in one location and then just have a celebration in the other location. Or have the wedding somewhere in the middle so both sets of family can come.
It would also be inappropriate to wear your dress, have a ceremony, and all the other wedding day stuff at your second event. It is like lying to your guests making them think they are attending your wedding when you are indeed already married.